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So, my 40th birthday is coming up. It's something I've kinda, low-key been trying to ignore. Honestly, I didn't even think I would live...

I don't know why I hate myself so much but it is obvious that I do. I was asked how many kids I wanted today. I told then I couldn't...

"Treat yourself like you treat your friends and family" I heard this in a few places this week, from various types of people. And it's...

What? Those aren't the words to the song? We get stressed out by the money we spend on people we love and people who happen to share the...

It's getting harder and harder to do anything these days. It took 45 minutes to get out of the car and come into my office. It took...

I've talked about my insecurities about "being enough" before. There have been so many instances where I have not been enough and most...

Recently, I was asked this existential question about my place in life and society. I have always been one to see the value in other...

I've been feeling very unsure about myself and all my decisions lately; not sure if I should move forward or stay behind. If I should...

Everyday we are bombarded by the noise of this world. People talking to us about the day-to-day goings on at work, home, and school. We...

A few posts ago I talked about becoming a Godmother and how special that was for me. Well, a few weeks later I received word that she...